Jason's blog posts from July, 2008

Let It Go

July 1, 2008

I am striving to learn how to let things go. A breakup is nothing more than an opportunity for something new to come into my life. Also, I need to realize that when someone leaves my life, it doesn't mean that I worst off, it could mean that I am gaining freedom from their hold on me. There are a lot of people, things and events that come into my life that doesn't need to stay forever. A humans brain and heart is only so big, in order for someone new to come into my heart it might mean I have to make room for them by removing someone else.

Losing someone only opens space for something GOOD to come into my life. As I am on a mission to only allow good into my soul/heart/and being. Also, usually if I am living a life of prosperity and accomplishment I have to learn to let go of those that aren't trying to live the same as me. I could have a lot of history with someone, but history doesn't mean future. History only allows me to learn and move forward. It will dictate my future only in that I will be more educated, but it will not dictate the need to stay with someone.

People come into our lives for a reason and when they are gone, I have to let them go. Either way their spirit/advise/knowledge/etc. stays with me, so I don't have to cling on to them, rather just realize what they offered me and what I offered them.

Learning to let a person go is true understanding of being present and living everyday. A lost loved, the passing of someone, being dumped, whatever the lost, there is no need to mourn but rather rejoice in what was shared and embrace the time that was spent with the other person. No one can live in the "what if", "only if", "I wish" and truly live a happy, fulfilling and productive life.

It takes a lot of energy to live in the past and minimal energy to live in the present. I gotta learn to better let it go as he/she has served their purpose for me and I have served my purpose for them. As in the famous words of Whitney Gilbert, I have to "Breathe, Relax, Release".

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