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It's okay for us to "not know". It's okay for us to be unsure. No one ever said that we have to know everything, all the time, every time. The worst thing is when someone beats themselves up because they are unsure. God didn't make anyone perfect and therefore that means there has to be times when we don't know.
There will be times when you are unsure of what's the next move to make. It is okay!! It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you or you have a problem. It just means you are unsure.

You need to take the time necessary to make the right decision, to gather more information and to have conviction when you finally decide. Don't get me wrong, you will ultimately have to make a decision, but it is okay to not know right away. Sometimes we are presented with choices that seem right either way or we are presented with choices that seem wrong either way.

Take time, walk away from the decision and center yourself. Think about the good and the bad that comes with the decision and focus on what's in your heart that will lead to a happier outcome. Always strive for personal happiness, which will differ for everyone, but strive to fulfill your own happiness when you are in a situation where you are unsure.

People have been uncertain about things from the beginning of time and people will be uncertain until the end of time. It is only for us to know that these times will be presented to us and we will have to deal with them. There is nothing wrong with a person who is unsure, or worried or fearful of a decision. This just reminds us that we are human and that we have to sometimes take a minute a look deep inside before we make a decision. It's not for us to beat ourselves up or get mad because we don't know. We all will be faced with these moments and that is what makes us GREAT. The ability to care about making the right decision and the ability to take the time to make that right decision.

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Inner Wealth

June 30, 2008

I have a huge admiration for people who follow their heart and understand who they are and what they want in life. Usually these are NOT the people who are out there chasing a dollar or following the path created by a system, or dating that wrong person. People who follow their heart are out there creating their own path and making decisions that are best rather than what seems logical.

Following the heart is a wonderful path that will only lead to true happiness. If only people could just listen to what it says as there are many times that the heart will contradict the brain. For example, when you are with that guy who you know isn't right for you, but your brain tells you that if you give him another chance it will work out. It is actually the heart that tries to tell you that he just isn't the right one for you.

People get the heart and brain confused a lot. There are so many conversations about love and how much a person is in love with the wrong person, but these people believe that the heart is what keeps them in the relationship. It is really the brain which uses reasoning and logic and looks to justify wrongs, while the heart actually only wants a pure path for you.

The heart will not lie, the brain will lie to you, but the heart will not lie. Think about those people who are in love with someone from the other side of the tracks, a different race, a different religion, or any other situation that the system would say is wrong. The brain is there to tell us, no this is wrong, you can't do this, but the heart is there to tell you if this is the right person for you. The heart guides you and tell you if you two are in love, care for each other and look to better each other. The heart is always trying to make sure you are truly happy.

The heart not only works for finding a great partner, but also to live life. When you are able to wake up everyday and do something you love you are destined to live a happy life. Too many people are concerned with money, careers, what people think about them, status, and everything else except for being happy and following their heart. When a person follows their heart and looks to be happy, money, status career and everything else will follow.

Our hearts are pure and unclouded by the world. Our brains learn everyday and are taught by the society we are raised. It is always going to be biased by something. Please follow your heart for true fulfillment.

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Good Guy Finish....

June 30, 2008

There is a story that goes a little like this, "one day this guy named Steve Jobs was starting a company called Apple and decided to bring in this new guy named, Bill Gates. Well the story continues that Steve allowed Bill to see all aspects of his company and showed him the ropes of the programming/computer industry. Unfortunately, Bill didn't see it the same way as Steve and took the information and left the Apple company to create his own company called Microsoft." I don't know how true the story is, but it is supposedly how Apple and Microsoft both started. Either way, Steve Jobs was being a good guy and tried to bring along a new guy into his start up company. Some would wonder aloud, "see it never pays to be a good guy" and I would counter with, if it wasn't for Bill Gates, Steve Jobs would not be the man he is today. He would not need to find other ways to invest his research and would not be the inventor and creator of the IPod, ITunes, IPhone and the entire I series of inventions.

This goes for life in general. The good guy doesn't FINISH last. Just ask a few key good guys out there... Desmond Tutu, Deepak Chopra, Oprah, and others. You better believe there is money to be made in being good. There are a lot of people who would argue with you that they know a few good guys who have finished ahead in the world and live a good and peaceful life. The greatest aspect of being a good guy is the piece of mind that comes with the way you live. Not only are you able to finish ahead of the pact, but you are also able to live life not having to worry about what people are hunting for you because of the way you have treated them. I am a fan of the good guys and girls out there. They are the people that make this a better planet and world.

Think about the teachers you have had in your life. It's because they are "good" people that make them teachers, because it is definitely not a profession that pays you for all of your hard work and dedication. I applaud all of the good men and women who walk this earth and know that they are still able to do well, while living well. I strive everyday to be one of them.

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I am sorry but I have to stop people from killing their spirit and their ability to grow. Too many times I hear the most horrible questions that a person could ever ask, "why is he with that girl?" "Why is she with that guy?" "Why is her/his hair that way?" "Why is she/he dressed that way?"

Clearly who ever you are concerned about is living their life and doing whatever makes them happy. While on the other hand you are concerned about their actions which means that it is impossible for you to be able to focus on yourself and look out for your own needs. Diverting your energy and feelings towards someone else can be a daunting task and should only be used to help others such as "Why is he/she homeless?" "Why is he/she starving?" and other questions of meaning.

You have to watch how your energy is exhausted as you do not want anything to divert you from the ultimate goal of bettering yourself and your surroundings. It is difficult to practice, but the life of others has nothing to do with your abilities and needs. Perfect example is "Why did he/she leave me?" Well the answer is really simple, because they weren't right for you. If you were honestly living your life positively then either they weren't ready to handle your positive energy or they weren't able to understand it. At the end of the day, when you are able to focus on yourself in a positive way, it will only make everything around you better.

For example the questions you should always ask is "How can I make my life better?" "How can I be more healthy?" "How can I further my growth?" This is what I call positive energy and when a person has positive energy then that means that all things good and great will follow. I know this is something I always struggle with, but everyday I look to be less concerned about why others are living their life the way they choose and more on how I can better live my life.

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