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July 1, 2008
I am a marketing executive at Jive Records, but life is about more than where I work.I am a dedicated husban…
July 1, 2008
July 1, 2008
Living life is also about finding things/people you don't like, as knowing what you don't like will help you find what you like. It's okay to say, something is not for you. Use the lesson to better understand yourself and move toward excellence. Don't be afraid to say "I have come to realize this doesn't work for me and it is time to move on."
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July 1, 2008
I know it is hard to ask a question when I have already formulated what kind of answer I am going to receive. The only problem is that there is a lot of negative energy that is used to worry and to be upset. I do not like using negative energy because it only seems to attract a negative spirit. So there really is no good reason as to why I wouldn't ask the question except that I am scared of the answer.
Usually being scared of the answer means that I fear I will be hurt or let down. Being hurt is difficult, but once I am hurt I am quickly given the opportunity to heal and move forward. Without knowing the answer, but allowing it to cause anxiety, I will never be able to move forward. Matter of fact, it will only hold me back and I will stop focusing on improving myself and my surroundings because I will be concerned about the answer someone will give me.
I am not going to allow anyone to hold me back. Matter of fact, from this moment on, even if I am worried about being hurt with an answer, I will ask the question. Knowledge is the key to freedom, growth, and prosperity. The answer might hurt me, but I can move on from that hurt. Questions will be asked, so be prepared to give me answers.
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July 1, 2008
Whatever the" mistake", it is okay for me to have messed up because it allows me to know myself and my wants and my needs. In addition, I am only human. I can not beat myself up because I am not perfect. I have to make sure I do not linger in my "mistake" and make sure I use it as a tool to move forward.
By knowing what I don't like, what I don't need, and what I don't want, I am also getting closer to what I DO like and what I DO need and what I DO want.
Mistakes, accidents, mishaps, stupid relationships, etc. happen all the time. It is when we use that "mistake" to help define our understanding of ourselves and use it to better our insight that we realize how wonderful it is to have a "mistake". Too many people focus on the "mistake" and wishing they could do it over or wishing they could take it back. Well I try everyday not to focus energy on negatives, but rather focus that energy towards positives. So a "mistake" is nothing more than a wonderful opportunity to better understand myself and my surroundings. There is a lot of beauty in a "mistake".
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July 1, 2008
It doesn't mean that I don't have to work hard, it doesn't mean that I am wealthy, it doesn't mean that I don't have to struggle, it doesn't mean that I won't have hardships in my life. It only means that I have opportunity ahead of me and I am HAPPY to have today. So today I am taking a second to be thankful to have...
Peace God, I AM Positive
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July 1, 2008
Maybe it is the help of a friend, maybe it is the help of my parents, maybe it is the help of my wife, maybe it is the help of God, or maybe it is the help of a stranger, but I can not choose to be stubborn and act like I can handle everything that is thrown to me. I have to reach out and ask for help so that I can move forward. There will be days when people reach out for me to help them so why wouldn't I do the same.
The ability to say "I need help" is one people struggle with for no reason. I am not sure if it is the worry that it will make you seem weak or if it's just the ego will not allow them to humble themselves and admit that they need help.
I know it's almost everyday that I admit I need help. There have been many times that saying that has saved me time, stress, and worry. It doesn't make me weak, it doesn't make me dumb, as a matter of fact I think it makes me more intelligent and it makes me stronger person. My wife helps me almost everyday and I help her everyday too. There's nothing wrong with the word HELP and when surrounded by the right people that word can make you the wealthiest, wisest, most complete person around.
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July 1, 2008
Losing someone only opens space for something GOOD to come into my life. As I am on a mission to only allow good into my soul/heart/and being. Also, usually if I am living a life of prosperity and accomplishment I have to learn to let go of those that aren't trying to live the same as me. I could have a lot of history with someone, but history doesn't mean future. History only allows me to learn and move forward. It will dictate my future only in that I will be more educated, but it will not dictate the need to stay with someone.
People come into our lives for a reason and when they are gone, I have to let them go. Either way their spirit/advise/knowledge/etc. stays with me, so I don't have to cling on to them, rather just realize what they offered me and what I offered them.
Learning to let a person go is true understanding of being present and living everyday. A lost loved, the passing of someone, being dumped, whatever the lost, there is no need to mourn but rather rejoice in what was shared and embrace the time that was spent with the other person. No one can live in the "what if", "only if", "I wish" and truly live a happy, fulfilling and productive life.
It takes a lot of energy to live in the past and minimal energy to live in the present. I gotta learn to better let it go as he/she has served their purpose for me and I have served my purpose for them. As in the famous words of Whitney Gilbert, I have to "Breathe, Relax, Release".
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June 30, 2008
To start off my day, I wake up and to end my day, I go to bed. Nothing about that seems bad. During my day, I eat, have shelter, wear clothes, and live. How can that really be such a bad day? I also try to live my life the best I can. I don't try to live the way someone else lives. I don't try to please others. I try hard to outdo myself everyday, but you will not find me trying to outdo someone else. So how can I have a bad day.
Now there are times I receive upsetting news, or something happens at work that I do not like, or I have an argument or a bunch of other things that could create a list a mile long. However after all of that happens I still manage to go to bed and go to sleep. So it really wasn't a bad day, but rather a bad moment that happens during the day.
Every night I release whatever it was that happened, because at the end of the day, I am not dead, I am still breathing, I am going to sleep and I have a new day tomorrow to begin. Why would I begin my new day still referencing bad moments. I can never have a bad day and never will, just bad moments. I mean really, what is so BAD????
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Voting is suppose to be anonymous, so I question the validity of the poll. Also, who was responsible for the poll? Either way, I don't quite understand how allowing someone to be committed and become a more stable home can be bad for anyone? Also, how does other people getting married affect others, i.e. even if a heterosexual couple gets married tomorrow, it won't affect me, so why would a gay couple affect me. "RIGHTS" is a powerful word and why shouldn't everyone have the same rights? I thought that was the point of this country.... If someone can explain why it's so bad for same sex marriage other than, I think it's wrong, then I will agree, as of now, I could care less if anyone wants to get married. Because I have heard a lot of reasons why it is bad if a committed couple can't be married; i.e., legal, in death decisions, property, etc.
It's interesting because both of our recent posts are about the overwhelming emotions that we are all feeling by the election of Barack Obama. There are a lot of hard times ahead of our new President. I hope we all give him time and work to help him accomplish the necessary things to make this country successful.
I know I will do my part to make sure it happens next year. Even though I spent most of my time in the hospital. I would do it all again to make sure the picnic happens
Okay, but lets be honest, there is a general type of person who is urinating in public, in the middle of the day, with no influence of alcohol or drugs. Is it good to start that path with a child so early?
This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything. To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you. Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD. If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?
does it really mean family
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