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December 5, 2008

Last night I watched the Barbara Walter's Special-10 Most Fascinating People.  Number 10 on her list was Will Smith.  While I agree with this choice, it's not because he is the biggest movie star of all-time.  It's because he seems to genuinely strive to be a successful human being, as well.

 

More than anything, I was struck by his stance on marriage.  He talked about his first failed marriage and current marriage.  He said that he and his wife believe that divorce is just not an option.  He said being married is absolutely the hardest thing you will ever do in your life.  (Boy, can I second that emotion!)  But he also said that if you go into it thinking you can just get a divorce when things get rough, everyone would just get divorced.

 

This may seem obvious to some people but with the current divorce rate in the US being 50%, maybe it isn't.

 

I have spent most of my adult life believing that I would never get married.  It was a very well known fact amongst my friends and family.  I just didn't see the point, especially when I saw so few examples of happy ones.  My plan was to be a diehard single girl for life!  But as my favorite Deepak Chopra says, if you want to make God laugh...tell him your plans!  My outlook on so many things in life changed on September 30, 2003.  

 

My husband and I have been married for a little over two years.  We, like every couple, have our good days and bad. (In fact, today started out as a not-so-good one. LOL!)

But our worse-ever days can never out number our good ones.  And I can't imagine ANY day without him.

 

If you are married or in a committed relationship, remember this.  Think about your life before that person was in it.  If your days are so much sweeter than they were before...don't let go.

 

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