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It's okay for us to "not know". It's okay for us to be unsure. No one ever said that we have to know everything, all the time, every time. The worst thing is when someone beats themselves up because they are unsure. God didn't make anyone perfect and therefore that means there has to be times when we don't know.
There will be times when you are unsure of what's the next move to make. It is okay!! It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you or you have a problem. It just means you are unsure.

You need to take the time necessary to make the right decision, to gather more information and to have conviction when you finally decide. Don't get me wrong, you will ultimately have to make a decision, but it is okay to not know right away. Sometimes we are presented with choices that seem right either way or we are presented with choices that seem wrong either way.

Take time, walk away from the decision and center yourself. Think about the good and the bad that comes with the decision and focus on what's in your heart that will lead to a happier outcome. Always strive for personal happiness, which will differ for everyone, but strive to fulfill your own happiness when you are in a situation where you are unsure.

People have been uncertain about things from the beginning of time and people will be uncertain until the end of time. It is only for us to know that these times will be presented to us and we will have to deal with them. There is nothing wrong with a person who is unsure, or worried or fearful of a decision. This just reminds us that we are human and that we have to sometimes take a minute a look deep inside before we make a decision. It's not for us to beat ourselves up or get mad because we don't know. We all will be faced with these moments and that is what makes us GREAT. The ability to care about making the right decision and the ability to take the time to make that right decision.

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Jason's Latest Commentary (6)

  • November 17, 2008

    Voting is suppose to be anonymous, so I question the validity of the poll.  Also, who was responsible for the poll?  Either way, I don''t quite understand how allowing someone to be committed and become a more stable home can be bad for anyone?  Also, how does other people getting married affect others, i.e. even if a heterosexual couple gets married tomorrow, it won''t affect me, so why would a gay couple affect me.  "RIGHTS" is a powerful word and why shouldn''t everyone have the same rights?  I thought that was the point of this country....  If someone can explain why it''s so bad for same sex marriage other than, I think it''s wrong, then I will agree, as of now, I could care less if anyone wants to get married.  Because I have heard a lot of reasons why it is bad if a committed couple can''t be married; i.e., legal, in death decisions, property, etc.

  • November 11, 2008

    It''s interesting because both of our recent posts are about the overwhelming emotions that we are all feeling by the election of Barack Obama.  There are a lot of hard times ahead of our new President.  I hope we all give him time and work to help him accomplish the necessary things to make this country successful.

  • September 26, 2008

    I know I will do my part to make sure it happens next year.  Even though I spent most of my time in the hospital.  I would do it all again to make sure the picnic happens

  • August 4, 2008

    Okay, but lets be honest, there is a general type of person who is urinating in public, in the middle of the day, with no influence of alcohol or drugs.  Is it good to start that path with a child so early? 

  • July 20, 2008

    This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

  • June 30, 2008

    does it really mean family

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