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Reach Your Hand Out

July 1, 2008

I would classify myself as a self reliant, intelligent, capable, outgoing person. There are probably many more adjectives that could be added to the list, but even with a million more adjectives it does not stop me from realizing that I need help. There are days when I just can't get things accomplished or I am feeling lackadaisical, unsure or just plain ole nervous. It's impossible not to have those days as I am sure everyone has them. The issue is to not allow my ego or my stubborn nature to stand in my way by not allowing me to reach out and ask for help.

Maybe it is the help of a friend, maybe it is the help of my parents, maybe it is the help of my wife, maybe it is the help of God, or maybe it is the help of a stranger, but I can not choose to be stubborn and act like I can handle everything that is thrown to me. I have to reach out and ask for help so that I can move forward. There will be days when people reach out for me to help them so why wouldn't I do the same.

The ability to say "I need help" is one people struggle with for no reason. I am not sure if it is the worry that it will make you seem weak or if it's just the ego will not allow them to humble themselves and admit that they need help.

I know it's almost everyday that I admit I need help. There have been many times that saying that has saved me time, stress, and worry. It doesn't make me weak, it doesn't make me dumb, as a matter of fact I think it makes me more intelligent and it makes me stronger person. My wife helps me almost everyday and I help her everyday too. There's nothing wrong with the word HELP and when surrounded by the right people that word can make you the wealthiest, wisest, most complete person around.

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It never ends...needing hep.  The trick is the willingness to accept the help.  ometimes even when you think you are open to help you become defensive..."because you didn't like the way it was said".."you don't understand", etc.  When every moment could be a teaching moment if we were just silent and think about words and advice given.  Not everyone is willing to help and somethimes the help doesn't help, but the iwllingness of another to even try should be appreciated.  Everyday I NEED HELP!

Posted 185 days ago by Cheryl

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