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July 1, 2008

Have you ever had a question that was so pressing and kept you up at night, but you were concerned about the answer and wasn't sure if you were ready to handle hearing something you didn't want to hear? I am sure a lot of people can relate. There is a lot of worry and power in an answer. However, I am not willing to give someone else my power. I am not willing to let anyone keep me up all night, worrying while trying to work things out in my head when all I need is the answer to help me move forward.

I know it is hard to ask a question when I have already formulated what kind of answer I am going to receive. The only problem is that there is a lot of negative energy that is used to worry and to be upset. I do not like using negative energy because it only seems to attract a negative spirit. So there really is no good reason as to why I wouldn't ask the question except that I am scared of the answer.

Usually being scared of the answer means that I fear I will be hurt or let down. Being hurt is difficult, but once I am hurt I am quickly given the opportunity to heal and move forward. Without knowing the answer, but allowing it to cause anxiety, I will never be able to move forward. Matter of fact, it will only hold me back and I will stop focusing on improving myself and my surroundings because I will be concerned about the answer someone will give me.

I am not going to allow anyone to hold me back. Matter of fact, from this moment on, even if I am worried about being hurt with an answer, I will ask the question. Knowledge is the key to freedom, growth, and prosperity. The answer might hurt me, but I can move on from that hurt. Questions will be asked, so be prepared to give me answers.

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  • November 11, 2008

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