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We have to always do what we feel is right  It's not good to keep doing something, dating someone or working somewhere because, "what would people say."  I mean honestly, who cares.  So many people go through life trying to please others and will continue dating someone only because their parents like them.  Or they continue working at a job or in an industry because they went to a certain school and it is the "right" thing to do. 
 
Trust me the right thing to do is to follow your heart and admit to yourself that "I have come to realize this doesn't work for me." It's okay to say stop, "I don't like law school", stop, "I am not in love with this person", etc.  The wrong thing to do is to continue down a path in which you know is wrong only because of the perception that will follow if you move on to something else. 
 
Maybe it is hard to say that "I quit".  I can definitely understand the emotions that are evoked from the words quit.  So don't say quit, say, "I have come to realize this doesn't work for me."  Learning what you don't like, also helps you to define what you do like and what you will love.  Don't ever be afraid to take a risk, but understand that if it winds up being something you don't like then be strong enough to walk away and say it's not for you.
 
In the end, walking away could be the best decision.  There is never a need to stay with something because of other's perceptions. It's about fulfilling your dreams and desires. When you find a person you honestly love or a profession you truly love, or etc, it will never seem hard or like work.  It will always seem like the best thing you have done or the best decision you have made. 

Living life is also about finding things/people you don't like, as knowing what you don't like will help you find what you like.  It's okay to say, something is not for you.  Use the lesson to better understand yourself and move toward excellence.  Don't be afraid to say "I have come to realize this doesn't work for me and it is time to move on." 

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Jason's Latest Commentary (6)

  • November 17, 2008

    Voting is suppose to be anonymous, so I question the validity of the poll.  Also, who was responsible for the poll?  Either way, I don''t quite understand how allowing someone to be committed and become a more stable home can be bad for anyone?  Also, how does other people getting married affect others, i.e. even if a heterosexual couple gets married tomorrow, it won''t affect me, so why would a gay couple affect me.  "RIGHTS" is a powerful word and why shouldn''t everyone have the same rights?  I thought that was the point of this country....  If someone can explain why it''s so bad for same sex marriage other than, I think it''s wrong, then I will agree, as of now, I could care less if anyone wants to get married.  Because I have heard a lot of reasons why it is bad if a committed couple can''t be married; i.e., legal, in death decisions, property, etc.

  • November 11, 2008

    It''s interesting because both of our recent posts are about the overwhelming emotions that we are all feeling by the election of Barack Obama.  There are a lot of hard times ahead of our new President.  I hope we all give him time and work to help him accomplish the necessary things to make this country successful.

  • September 26, 2008

    I know I will do my part to make sure it happens next year.  Even though I spent most of my time in the hospital.  I would do it all again to make sure the picnic happens

  • August 4, 2008

    Okay, but lets be honest, there is a general type of person who is urinating in public, in the middle of the day, with no influence of alcohol or drugs.  Is it good to start that path with a child so early? 

  • July 20, 2008

    This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

  • June 30, 2008

    does it really mean family

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