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The greatest competition is the competition from within, not with others. I am the only one who can truly push myself to be successful. Competing and comparing myself to others only gives me a diagram for their goals and their success. I am bigger and better than what they want for themselves because my mind thinks beyond their dreams. I can not and will not be able to compare my fortune, success, wealth, happiness, and worth by what anyone else has anymore.

No one can have the exact same idea and the exact same goal as someone else. Our bodies, minds, thoughts and beliefs are like fingerprints, like snowflakes; we are all uniquely wonderful and different. So if we are all unique, how can I gauge myself by what someone else is doing or has done?

Do not be confused about learning and comparing. I will continue to try to learn from others and study others to understand what was done right, what was done wrong, what worked and what did not work. The success and failures of others can do a lot to help me to better my thought process and my growth, but it cannot determine my level of success. There is a HUGE scale that I have built for myself that will determine my goals, my levels of progress, and my success. There will be no comparison to any other people.

I have already begun pushing myself to limits that I didn't know existed only to find that once I reached a so called limit, I could go further. So I am very excited about not allowing others dreams and desires to cloud my ability to achieve because I know what's in store for me is GREAT. So from now on my only competition is with myself.

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Jason's Latest Commentary (6)

  • November 17, 2008

    Voting is suppose to be anonymous, so I question the validity of the poll.  Also, who was responsible for the poll?  Either way, I don't quite understand how allowing someone to be committed and become a more stable home can be bad for anyone?  Also, how does other people getting married affect others, i.e. even if a heterosexual couple gets married tomorrow, it won't affect me, so why would a gay couple affect me.  "RIGHTS" is a powerful word and why shouldn't everyone have the same rights?  I thought that was the point of this country....  If someone can explain why it's so bad for same sex marriage other than, I think it's wrong, then I will agree, as of now, I could care less if anyone wants to get married.  Because I have heard a lot of reasons why it is bad if a committed couple can't be married; i.e., legal, in death decisions, property, etc.

  • November 11, 2008

    It's interesting because both of our recent posts are about the overwhelming emotions that we are all feeling by the election of Barack Obama.  There are a lot of hard times ahead of our new President.  I hope we all give him time and work to help him accomplish the necessary things to make this country successful.

  • September 26, 2008

    I know I will do my part to make sure it happens next year.  Even though I spent most of my time in the hospital.  I would do it all again to make sure the picnic happens

  • August 4, 2008

    Okay, but lets be honest, there is a general type of person who is urinating in public, in the middle of the day, with no influence of alcohol or drugs.  Is it good to start that path with a child so early? 

  • July 20, 2008

    This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

  • June 30, 2008

    does it really mean family

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