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Let's start with defining fear and faith. Based on wikipedia.org fear is an emotional response to tangible and realistic dangers. Faith is to commit oneself to act based on sufficient evidence to warrant belief, but without absolute proof and involves an act of will. No one can have the faith and true belief in anything if they have fear. Fear is the main component for doubt, which is the first step to failure.

In no way am I saying faith is all you need for there to be success. There needs to be more than blind faith. A person needs patience, work, desire, and understanding along with faith in order to be successful. As the definition states, "based on sufficient evidence to warrant belief, but without absolute proof.” You can not say, "I have faith in myself so I know I will do well", and expect that with a magical wand you become happy and successful. Without doing the research, putting in the work and learning what is needed to be successful, the misuse of the word faith will only lead to unnecessary failure and pain.

People discredit faith when it is used improperly and begin to believe fear is useful because "fear allows you to make cautious decisions" or "fear leads you to act with reason". Wrong! Fear only does one thing and that is to restrict a person from truly reaching their potential. If you want a job badly, but fear that you won't get it, are you willing to put all your efforts into obtaining that job? No, because you are also worried about setting up a plan B, a fall back plan for if that job does not come through. It’s the same for relationships, if you fear rejection; you are less likely to let a person know your real spirit, rather putting up guards to prepare for rejection. This preparation for 'plan B' and 'just in case’ only leads to failure.

Well I only prepare for success. I don't set myself up with blind faiths and I don't allow fear to creep into my soul. I do my research, I learn what's out there, I do the work that is necessary and then I add in the biggest ingredient, faith, and I always obtain whatever goal I was reaching for, whether it's monetary, physical, or spiritual.

If there are any signs of fear, then faith isn't present and that will only lead to me having doubts. I will begin to question. I will begin to set up a plan b, a plan c, etc. Then I will wonder why I wasn't successful and why I failed. The answer is plain and simple, I was fearful, which then led me to a path of nothingness.

I want a lot for myself and those around me. I want us all to reach our true peak performance. I will have faith in myself to know that whatever I do, I will be successful. I am no longer worried about a 'plan B' and 'just in case' is stricken from my vocabulary. Fear is not allowed in my circle, only FAITH with a side of hard work and preparation.

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What if God is not happy with your praise?  Do you ever fear the fact that maybe you are not living your life in the will of God, but in your own will.  The bible says, "A fool in his own mind is always right, it also says to fear no man, because man can only destory the body,  but fear the one who has the power to destory your soul.  You fear God, out of respect for him and you don't want to do anything to displease him.  But your fear of God should not be greater then your faith in him.

Posted 772 days ago by Shirley

This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

Posted 779 days ago by Jason

As with most words in our English language, you can intertwine them to mean different things in different points of our lives. Therefore, Faith and Fear can and do exist in my same space within the right contents. My fear is not based on fear of failure, fear of accomplishment or fear of man. It comes from the fear of God. You can find this in multiple chapters in the Bible. I like Psalms 111:10 that states: "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him belongs the eternal praise." Proverbs 15:16 tells us “Better a little with the fear of the Lord then great wealth with turmoil.”This type of fear serves as a daily reminder for me to be kind to others, watch my thoughts as well as my words, appreciate what I have while I have it and spend some time giving praise and thanks.  I have learned to stop, reflect and ask if my words and works well I know may be pleasing to man, (me, family, boss, coworkers) is it pleasing to the Lord. For end the end I will only be accountable to me for me. In addition, my faith must remain in faith of God.  We have faith in our skills, faith in knowledge, family and our success. I must continue to learn and grow in knowledge and understanding that his plan may not match my plan and my will may not match his will. It challenges my spirit to recognize the difference.  I know I must remain faithful knowing no matter how hard or wrong, or frustrating it gets, he has not left me or abandon me nor does the scripture say it will always be easy.  

 

Posted 790 days ago by Carmen

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    This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

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