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The Destiny

July 1, 2008

Some nights I lay tormented by the thought that I am not fulfilling my destiny. The thoughts encompass my destiny, my talent, my potential, my wife, my parents, and an overall feeling that I am “letting someone down”. If I really thought about it, I could never worry about fulfilling my destiny, because it is an oxymoron. Destiny means something that is to happen or has happened, so in essence I should never worry about fulfilling my destiny, rather enjoy whatever happens.

However, I do realize that there are people who constantly fight their destiny. I do not believe anyone is destined to commit an illegal act, but rather makes decisions that counter their destiny and wind up in unfortunate situations. I believe everyone has fortune ahead of them if they just listen, work, and focus.

Unfortunately people continuously fight against their talents and fortunes. For instance, I have a friend that is a wonderful writer. I mean his emails are always written perfectly and on many occasions I find myself pulling out a dictionary in order to fully understand what he was saying. Furthermore, what always cracks me up about his perfect emails, are that they are just an email to friends that don’t needed to be perfect, it’s not like these are professional, work emails. You would think he would move towards being a writer/journalist, however, he has done everything to avoid this skill. Always saying, it is just something he does well, not what he is meant to do. I am sure many people know others who are similar; you sit back and watch someone with a skill and ability that you would rejoice and maximize if you had only an ounce of their talent.

There are many examples of how meditating and listening to that inner voice can lead you on the correct path. Think about when you are looking for your keys and you can’t find them anywhere. Only after looking for some time, you decide to sit and think, ultimately finding them within seconds. There is just something within that we all possess and when we listen; it will guide us to our destiny. So as long as I am listening/looking at the clues, I will not “let anyone down” and I will fulfill my destiny.

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