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So I think we all have heard about the contestant from California, Carrie Prejean, in the Miss USA pageant.  If you haven't see the above video in reference to her answering the question about Gay Marriage.  Ultimately, she received a 0 for the answer and lost the ultimate beauty contest.  Basically, if she would have gotten anything for the question/answer she would have won. 

Not only was she being honest, she was also speaking for her state of Califonia, which voted on Proposition 8 and legally banned Gay Marriage in California.  Since most of the country has not legalized gay marriage, she is in essence in the majority.  She was asked about her beliefs and effectively gave them to the judges.  However, she was penalized for saying what she felt, believed and what the majority of her state,California, believes. 

So now the beauty contest is a political forum and if you don't agree with the judges, you are going to lose.  It's completely ridiculous and for the board of pageants to allow this mockery just further reinforces how remedial these contests are for women.  The face that they still exist is another issue, but this is just stupid. 

Now, maybe you believe her answer was lacking eloquency and clarity, which I would totally agree, however, that doesn't justify a 0.  Clearly it was because Preez is an openly gay male and he wants all people to believe in what he believes.  Honestly, I could care less.  As only as gay marriage doesn't impose any restrictions on me getting married, I don't see the problem.  No one has really explained to me why gay marriage is BAD, other than religiously it's wrong, but I can name a million things that people do that religiously is wrong.  So other than that reason, I am waiting for someone to convince me it's WRONG. 

Okay, I completely digressed from the topic at hand.  When did keeping it real, telling the truth go so wrong.  Maybe you say she should have been politically correct, well correct with who.  She seems like she was being politically correct.  She said "no offense to anyone, but this is is how I feel."  Is it me, or is this just a mockery of so many things???

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Jason's Latest Commentary (6)

  • November 17, 2008

    Voting is suppose to be anonymous, so I question the validity of the poll.  Also, who was responsible for the poll?  Either way, I don''t quite understand how allowing someone to be committed and become a more stable home can be bad for anyone?  Also, how does other people getting married affect others, i.e. even if a heterosexual couple gets married tomorrow, it won''t affect me, so why would a gay couple affect me.  "RIGHTS" is a powerful word and why shouldn''t everyone have the same rights?  I thought that was the point of this country....  If someone can explain why it''s so bad for same sex marriage other than, I think it''s wrong, then I will agree, as of now, I could care less if anyone wants to get married.  Because I have heard a lot of reasons why it is bad if a committed couple can''t be married; i.e., legal, in death decisions, property, etc.

  • November 11, 2008

    It''s interesting because both of our recent posts are about the overwhelming emotions that we are all feeling by the election of Barack Obama.  There are a lot of hard times ahead of our new President.  I hope we all give him time and work to help him accomplish the necessary things to make this country successful.

  • September 26, 2008

    I know I will do my part to make sure it happens next year.  Even though I spent most of my time in the hospital.  I would do it all again to make sure the picnic happens

  • August 4, 2008

    Okay, but lets be honest, there is a general type of person who is urinating in public, in the middle of the day, with no influence of alcohol or drugs.  Is it good to start that path with a child so early? 

  • July 20, 2008

    This is where I have always wondered about the translation of the Bible, because I do not believe that anyone should ever fear, i.e. be scared, nervous or un sure about GOD, but always have faith that his will and his love will carry you through anything.  To me, by having faith in him and believing in his WORD, you will always try to live life as he would want you.  Unfortunately, everyone is human, so no one can ever live life perfectly as we should, but in trying to live a GODly life, you are also assuring and displaying to everyone your Faith in GOD.  If I have Faith in him, why would I Fear him?

  • June 30, 2008

    does it really mean family

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